Sunday, June 3, 2012

Rogers Stake Youth Trek 2012

The trek is over and as I ponder over the past few days I realize that there is great value in these type of experiences and activities. I have read many journal entries of pioneers and they attempt to share the process by which they learned the valuable lessons that carried them through their adversity. I understand just a little bit of what they felt and experienced.

As the first day began, we were all excited, dressed as pioneers and ready to embark on our journey. At first it was about keeping clean and working as a family and being nice. As the day wore on, the excitement was still there but I began to ask myself why the saints willingly took these arduous journeys. People died, they sustained injuries and the trip was just plain hard even in mild weather. Difficult conditions would have compounded the strain, naturally. We saw a few cars stop on the road and take some photos, and I don't know if they were family members or just strangers stopping to see what we were up to. We did not see anyone outside of our group for the rest of the trek.

Ma and Pa teams were asked to prepare pioneer stories to share at devotional stops. We prepared and had stories of our ancestors as well as documented handcart pioneer families. I was constantly pondering how their experience was similar, and yet very different than ours. Many of us had very nice hiking boots, a doctor on hand with what ever we needed, angels who provided us with food each morning and along the trail. We were encouraged along the way by a very energetic brother who made sure we were keeping hydrated and having fun. He carried a megaphone. He was not a still small voice, yet his message was heard and felt by all.

We learned to appreciate porta-potties (although I kept trying to "flush") and looked forward to seeing them around the bend. However, when we had to pee, we had no problem using a tree (or bush or even tall grass). I really enjoyed using our indoor plumbing again. We were being brave souls our first night and opted to sleep out under the stars without any tarp over us, after all, tarps are for whimps. Wrong. Tarps are for the smart ones who remembered the warning about "dew". The dew that settled in left puddles of water on anything it touched. I can now see why, before Noah, the earth's plants grew just fine with "dew". It was heavy dew. My sleeping bag was wet, my feet were wet, my pillow was wet except for where my head lay. The next night, we built the most amazing lean-to which covered everything. Ahhh, dry sleeping bag!

After the first day of trekking we were all tired and hot. The kids needed to swim, so I went down to the river and watched a hundred or more kids splash about, jump off boulders, swim, float, cool off and enjoy the company of fellow trekkers. It was great! For dinner we had chili which even the most picky of eaters devoured, saying it was the best chili ever. They were hungry kids! I loved being able to go to the mess truck and get a bucket of food for our meals that day! We enjoyed biscuits and gravy for breakfast, cooked in dutch ovens. That is some good camping food! We took bread, peanut butter, jelly, cookies and chips for our lunch picnic. At our lunch break, we did a human tug-of-war with no ropes. We locked arms and pulled. Our teams strategized on the best linking method and took first place in girls and finals with boys. Our kids had a competitive streak!

During one of the breaks, we stopped in a beautiful pasture and the Pony Express Rider arrived with letters from home. Each of the kids got a letter, read it, then wrote in their journals. We found out that one of the brothers who had come from Grove Ward to participate as an "unfriendly" indian was in an ATV accident and they thought he had broken his back. He asked for a blessing and was given one. He was picked up by ambulance and taken in for x-rays and CT scans. Not one bone was broken even though he could not move his legs or feel sensation. What a blessing for him and his family to have a miracle performed on his behalf. Everyone knelt in prayer together to combine our faith to pray for his recovery. His name had been included on the OKC temple prayer roll that night as well. I am so thankful for the priesthood power and for the power of prayer.

The second day was overcast and drizzling which was great because it kept us just damp enough to stay cool, not enough to soak us. The girls were separated from the boys for a short time as the men went to find buffalo. We had to pull the handcarts for a time without help from our men. The girls also had a chance to see what role service played in making it across the plains. Some handcarts only had 2-3 women. The girls noticed and left our family to go help. As leaders, we knew this would happen but we were told not to ask the girls to help the others. They needed to notice it and act on their feelings. Two of our girls left our handcart to help. Good for them! We were psyched up for the pull. We encouraged one another saying "We can do HARD THINGS!" When it came time for us to pull our cart up the muddy slippery incline, the men had returned and came to help. Some of our brothers lent a hand but we did make it up for the most part on our own. This was valuable for the girls to realize how strong they really were.

My testimony was strengthened as I thought of Zions Camp and the work it did in making the brothers work together in love and cooperation and to rid themselves of pride and contention. This kind of exertion, working together to survive and being led through the "wilderness" by our church leaders is a testimony building experience like no other.

I am so glad I was able to attend and watch our youth have this intense growing experience. So, why did the saints endure this with faith. They knew the Gospel was true. Why do we let our youth stretch themselves and have this experience, so they too can have the kind of faith and testimony that will be required in these latter days.

Thursday, September 8, 2011



Cailyn forbade me from planning anything with friends. She just wanted to celebrate and hang out with the family for her 18th Birthday. We had her favorite dinner...drum roll please...ravioli. No surprise there. We have that for every one of her birthdays!
Then we went goofy golfing and the kids were definitely goofy. I got the best score.



I collect the kids' shirts as they grow out of them if they have special significance. I have seen these t-shirt quilts before but this is the first one I have made. I started on it months ago, back in the early part of the year. It was a total surprise for Cailyn. She loved it! She said that beginning to end, this was just as she wanted the day to be. It was perfect. She got some great service coupons from Jeff and Bryce, a new laptop computer from us and a framed Fatali print and quilt from me. It was a fun day for everyone. Now there are more adults in the family than kids!

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Bryce - National Court of Honor Heroism Award


Since my last post, we have come full circle. A year has passed, Barry's leg is healed, he has very little swelling (it was a daily battle for a long time) and there are just some things that are not going to get better in this life. We accept that. Parts of his leg still don't have feeling, but it does not affect him in any way except he feels like there is a rope in his shoe when he walks.

Looking back, it is so very apparent that the Lord had a reason for allowing us to go through this. Barry did not die, no bones were broken, he got help in time to save his legs and save his life and I had the fortitude to dress his wounds and the strength to lift/push/support him through it all. Yes, we have been so blessed.

First Bryce was with Barry. Bryce had been hiking with the cub scouts on a hot day, yet he still wanted to go to the property. Bryce got off of the tractor just before the accident. He went to Barry and tried to turn the tractor off. He went and got the cell phone and called 911 and called me. He kept Barry from going into shock and went for help, leaving Barry with the cell phone, talking to 911 operators. Bryce found a neighbor and brought them back, and prayed the whole time, knowing that the Lord was aware and would be there through it all.

Bryce was just awarded the National Court of Honor Heroism Award for his quick thinking after the accident.

There are many people to thank: teachers, den leaders, scout leaders, emergency responders, doctors, ward family, family, friends and the dozens of people whose prayers ascended to heaven on our behalf. Thank you Bryce for being there, for risking your life by climbing under the tractor engine while it was still chugging away, spewing fuel and billowing with smoke and for doing what needed to be done even though you were very scared.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Summary of Barry's Injury and Recovery

The clinic that treated Barry's injuries is also a training facility for doctors from all over the area where they can look at severe injuries and wounds that are not healing properly. Barry's was just severe and did heal as hoped, but I put together photos that I took to document the healing process for when Barry had the stomach to look at them. These are the actual factual photos of the wound when the bandages were changed every couple of days. This is the ppt. I created for the doctor.

Monday, January 24, 2011

Snow!

What a FUN snow day! We don't usually get much snow, and this will break records for this area. No one in this house is complaining though!

Cooking with cailyn

Cailyn had fun making cinnamon rolls!

Monday, January 3, 2011

A Look Back at 2010

The Wall Family DVD of 2010

This is our DVD of the year 2010. A lot happened, we grew as a family and have some great experiences to draw on for strength. We were blessed greatly and thank the Lord for his tender mercies on our behalf.

We know the gospel is true, the Savior lives and our Heavenly Father's promises are sure. Our family is a forever family!